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Feminist activist, magical girl, knitter, expert Animal Crossing New Leaf player.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

There's no such thing as a "Blurred Line" of consent and this song should really not be popular

Sooooooo... It's late enough in the year to start talking about what the Song of the Summer was, right? The VMAs have happened, it's a little less humid outside, the grocery stores are breaking out the pumpkin spice and apple cider. Summer is over, is what I'm getting at! And what song finished the season at the top of EVERY chart? Robin Thicke's Blurred Lines.



I will NOT link the video, because it's trash. I should not have to tell you why a song by a man who has literally said "It is a pleasure to degrade a woman" is trash, but if you must know, take a look at Sociological Images' post comparing the lyrics of the song to what real-life rapists have said to their victims (huge warning for discussion of rape at the link!).

There's a lot of misogynistic media out there, to be sure, but I take particular issue with Blurred Lines because of how popular it is. It spent all summer breaking different records while it perpetuated misogyny and rape culture on a global scale. (Do we need a breakdown of rape culture? If we do, here's the Wikipedia page.) As a sexual assault survivor it turns my stomach to hear my teenaged sister singing this song that uses the words my attacker used against me when she's hanging out with her friends.

So do your best to keep Blurred Lines from selling any more than it already has! Point out to your friends that it's a gross, terrible song, and support other artists. For example, here's an awesome new song from a 17 year old girl from New Zealand! Her name is Lorde, the song is Royals, and as soon as I heard it I bought the Love Club album. I can't stop listening! She also just broke the record for longest female reign on the Alternative chart, and she's right below Robin Thicke on the Hot 100!


welcome pals!

Hey, friends! I'm Kylie, I'm 19, and I'm a UF student. I live in Gainesville for most of the year and my parents live in Martin County, Florida. I'm a History and Telecommunications major and my partner is an Electrical Engineering major! We like to play video games and watch baseball together.



I'm an avid feminist and an actual magical girl.


I like to knit, and play with dogs (LOOK AT MY DOGS) and educate people about feminism and what they can do to make positive changes in an oppressive culture like ours, so that's what I'll be doing with this blog! Topics will range from local Gainesville level stuff to things on a global scale.

A news piece that really got me thinking this morning was this anonymous letter from a woman who provides illegal abortions to people who can't get them anywhere else. It was pretty chilling. What have you read recently?